BJ Thompson, Co-Founder

BJ was born and raised in Dallas, Tx and came to know Jesus at 19. He and his beautiful wife Vanja have been married for a decade and have 3 children. For 3 years he served with recording artist Lecrae at Reachlife and completed a 3-year Pastoral Residency at Fellowship Memphis church, under Bryan Loritts. Over the past 10 years he has partnered with several churches and ministries to help develop marriages, form small groups, and train leaders globally. Currently BJ serves as the co-founder (2008) of Build a Better Us. He has a Bachelors degree in Sociology from the University of North Texas and a Masters in Christian Studies from Union University.



Hassan Saleem, Co-Founder

Hassan is a native of Memphis and co-founder of Build a Better Us. He met the Lord at the age of seven, but didn’t get to know Him intimately until the age of 22 and has been devoted to teaching and ministering his Word ever since. As a young adult, he began ministering to youth and his peers through coaching various athletic teams and being involved in Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Through many years of training young boys in their individual sporting events, the Lord revealed to him, that it was his calling to train them to become godly young men and teach them the gospel of Jesus Christ.
He has been happily married and committed to his wife Tiffeny since 2001. With this union, the Lord blessed them with three wonderful sons. After being away for his college matriculation since 1998, the Lord lead Hassan to move back home in 2006 from Frankfort, Kentucky to minister to inner city youth as a teacher in the Memphis City Schools. In addition to his Bachelor of Science in Physical Education and Health from Kentucky State University, Hassan has a Masters of Education Administration from the University of Cincinnati. He uses his gifts and abilities to mentor men in his community and multiple married and engaged couples, serving as an advocate for faithfulness to the Lord and also faithfulness to their respective spouses in everyday life. Hassan is most passionate about prayer, Christ-centered family and authentic biblical community.
Hassan currently serves on the elder board at Fellowship Memphis Church with numerous shepherding ministries within the congregation involving small group leadership and also as chairman of the Downtown Outpost Advisory Board. As a passionate, prayer warrior he and his wife serve as the Memphis Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference Prayer Team Directors. In his spare time, he enjoys spending quality time with his wife and three sons.

Jeff Howard, Lead Shepherd

Jeff is originally from Harlan, Kentucky where he was born and raised. In the fall of 2007 the Lord saved him from living a selfish and prodigal life. Shortly after this time Jeffrey felt called to serve the Lord with his life by working in vocational ministry. He studied at the Memphis Center for Urban and Theological Studies pursuing his degree in Biblical Ministries with an emphasis on Biblical Counseling. He has been working with DownLine Ministries since the spring of 2009 where he works with their Emerging Leader program. In May of 2010 Jeff married his beautiful wife Christina and they are expecting their first child in August of 2012. He serves on the Building A Better Us team as a Lead Shepherd. He is honored to be a part of such a great ministry that has a focus on restoring Gospel centered marriages.

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her...Ephesians 5:25