Build A Better Us is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit that exists to encourage a restored view of marriage and individual maturity from a Christian worldview. Our movement began in a living room with four couples in 2008. We asked the question, “What would it look like for us to grow in following Jesus in our marriages and to care for the marriages of others?” Since then, Build A Better Us has worked with hundreds of couples and individuals all over the world, equipping them to experience authentic transformation in a community of loving support.
We have partnered with organizations such as Desiring God, Acts 29 Network, the Assemblies of God, and various churches around the nation. Our work has also been featured by Christianity Today, LifeWay Christian, the ERLC, and Reach Records.
We believe that no matter your relationship status or life circumstance, you have the ability in Christ to be extraordinary and to affect change in the world. Build A Better Us is putting power back into the hands of the people.
Building a better you, so we can be a better us.
To assist individuals & families through coaching and health services in order to build better communities.
We want to build a future where all individuals and all families thrive, no matter their circumstances. This will help to build communities that embrace a mindset of continual growth.
“We are a mess and yet deeply loved by God”. We’re all made in God’s image; find your value and live it out.
Love God, Love People
Based on the Biblical call to love God, love self and love others we encourage each person to develop habits that lead to significant transformation. This is the key necessary to build a better us: loving one another.
Authentic transformation cannot be achieved in isolation. We cannot love one another if we hide from each other. But together, in a loving community of transparency and support, we see lives transformed and marriages healed. We only thrive when we are in a healthy community, receiving and giving grace to each other as we grow. We are better together.
BJ is a life coach, speaker, and author who helped launch one of the largest faith movements in recent history – the “116 Movement” with Grammy award winning artist Lecrae. He also served alongside Bryan Loritts to expand groundbreaking racial reconciliation work in Memphis, TN. BJ has worked with tens of thousands of individuals and couples all over the world helping them experience personal and relational growth. Currently BJ serves as the executive director for Build a Better Us. He has a bachelor’s degree in sociology from the University of North Texas and a master’s degree in Christian studies from Union University. He has been featured in Relevant Magazine, Propel, Christianity Today, Barna, & other publications. He has also worked with History Chanel, RZIM, ERLC, Desiring God, Universities & other corporations. He and his wife Vanja have been married 16 years and live in Atlanta with their three children.
Theresy has been a member of the Build a Better Us since 2012. She is a first-generation Haitian-American who grew up in Brockton, MA, and holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology. As the Director of Operations for the organization, she has created smooth and sustainable processes for the organization. Theresy is passionate about people, their stories, and helping them see the thread of hope and redemption when they feel hopeless. She enjoys quality family time and DIY home projects. She currently lives in Memphis, TN with her husband and 3 beautiful daughters.”
CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER
Shayna was born and raised on a farm in central Illinois. She got a bachelor’s degree in Agriculture Business at Illinois State University. College was a pivotal time in her life due to her father’s death during her first semester of college. After graduation Shayna entered collegiate ministry as she wanted to walk along side college students during one of the most transforming times in their lives. She has spent the last 15 years in college ministry in 3 different states and on multiple campuses. As a result of her mentoring investment, many women and men are thriving across the nation. Shayna joins the Build a Better Us team to start campus ministries in Chicago. Shayna loves the complexity and beauty that abounds in cities and is passionate about helping students live holistic and brave lives.
Ruth Buchanan is a Christian freelance writer and the author of seven books, four stage plays, and countless articles and essays. As a writing coach, she’s perfectly positioned to help other writers hone their skills and level up in their careers. She has a demonstrated history of working closely with writers to shape their story and craft their message into something truly unforgettable. She’s conversant in a wide variety of fields, but as someone who holds an undergraduate degree in Church Ministries and a master’s in Theological Studies, she’s especially comfortable working in areas of practical Christian theology. Ruth is an accomplished Bible teacher and a proficient public speaker. Though usually clamped to the keyboard, Ruth is also an eager reader, an enthusiastic traveler, and the world’s most reluctant runner.
Small Groups Director